My
friends have left me and it was very hard to say goodbye. They were
such awesome people and we got along so perfectly. I'm really going to
miss them.
This week went very quickly. On Thursday we went to
Swan Lake at the National Opera and Ballet Theater. The tickets were $9
and in a great spot. It was very beautiful and the woman who played
Odette did a great job changing her personality between the white and
black swan.
It has been very
hot this week so we get to take the babies outside in strollers every
day. However, the babies are still dressed in their winter clothes. They
wear thick snow suits over their clothing and warm, woolly
hats. It's 70 degrees! Whenever I take the winter stuff off when we go
back in, the babies are drenched in sweat. I really want to take all
that clothing off of them but I've heard people comment on the kids
being too cold. My room at the orphanage is a sauna and i sweat as I
hold their warm bodies against me. Friday afternoon, I finally got to
take a baby out without all
the winter clothes and woolly hat. He just wore a cap. It was a relief.
the winter clothes and woolly hat. He just wore a cap. It was a relief.
It's supposed to get even hotter this week and then get down into the
60s. I was expecting much cooler weather for this time of year and
brought quite a few long sleeved shirts and cardigans. I'm thinking
about hitting up a second hand market for some cheap t-shirts.
I
thought I would tell you a little about the babies I am working with.
I'm not going to post any pictures out of respect for their privacy, but
I will tell you about them. I have 16 babies in my group.
Julia-Blond
hair, bright blue eyes, probably 9 months old. I call her Princess
Julia because she is always crying to get her way. And not just little
whimpers. Full blown wailing. One minute she'll be perfectly happy, and
then the next, she'll realize you aren't bouncing her high enough and
she'll start to cry. She has to be moving constantly. She loves the
swing but you have to be pushing her all the time. She also likes the
walker but you have to be pushing her around the room in it. At one
point, I was feeding a baby, pushing Julia in her walker with my foot,
and had another little girl playing with cups on my lap.
Vasili-Brown
hair, green eyes, 3 months old. He loves me to sing to him. He whimpers
and cries when he's hungry or wants to be held. He loves being held. He
spends most of his time in his stroller. He is very sweet and cute and I
love feeding him. He stares into my eyes and I talk to him the whole
time. He smiles when I give him kisses. He is the youngest of the group.
Nicu-Brown
hair, brown eyes, chubby cheeks. He is really cute but he is also
pretty demanding. He is probably about 1 1/2 and is throwing tantrums
left and right. He knows I'll do whatever he says so he always looks
straight at me. When he is in his playpen, he wants out (as do all the
kids) and will follow me around the room crying. I'm teaching him sign
language and to feed himself, and he is learning fairly quickly. He
loves to come to me and have me throw him in the air. He also likes to
be pushed on a little car. He could get away with murder with his smile.
Catilin-Short, dirty blond
hair, brown eyes, probably almost 2, the oldest of the group. He is
just learning to walk and seems to have something wrong with his feet.
I've been making him walk with me to get him used to it and he has been
doing better. He also cries and whines at me a lot. For the longest
time, I thought he was a girl because it sounded like everyone was
calling him Catilina. Then, at
potty time, I realized he was not a girl. He hates potty time and cries
the whole time. He also cries when I say bye bye. He is a little more
advanced than the others. I gave them the toy where you put the
different sized donuts on a pole. He was the only one who could do it.
The rest just banged the donuts together. I'm teaching him to feed
himself too and he is doing very well.
Elena-Brown hair, brown eyes, chubby cheeks, probably almost 2. She is also just learning to walk. Nicu
is the best walker of the group and he seems the youngest of the older
ones. Elena loves being thrown in the air. She likes being held and
wants to be in my lap a lot, even when I have other babies there. She is
the caretaker of the group. When a baby cries she goes to see them. She
likes pull the swing when the babies are in it, or rock their little
playpen. She also likes to push Vasili's stroller. She goes up to
caretakers to be picked up. She hates being in the playpen and will rock
side to side whining. She is very sweet.
Denis-
Pronounced Denise, bald, brown eyes, around a year old. He is a bit
nervous. He cries when the other ones hit him with a toy but instantly
stops when he is picked up. He doesn't really like being held, and
doesn't seem to trust people. I spent a lot of time with him outside on
Friday and I think he started to trust me. At first, he didn't really
want to touch me but then he was climbing on me and smiling. He is very
sweet and rarely complains. He really hates the potty but can be
distracted pretty easily. He rubs his head against the playpen bars when
he is upset. He can't walk but I've been trying to make him. He is
holding the spoon and cup pretty well to feed himself (with my
guidance). He is often left in the playpen alone because he doesn't
complain like the others.
Valeru-Curly blond hair, blue eyes, dimples, almost 2. When I first got here, he never cried. I watched as Catilin
hit him over the head with a toy and he didn't react at all. Then, this
Friday, he got hit and started crying. I picked him up and he stopped.
He is a pleaser and is almost always happy. He was sick and went to the infirmary
for a while. I think he must have been abused at home. He is very
cautious of everyone. While the other older ones play with me, he
doesn't really come near. He does like being thrown in the air, but he
won't come to me like the others will. He doesn't cry at potty time and
can also be left in the playpen for long periods of time because he doesn't complain. He is very talkative though, always making lots of sounds.
Stanislav-Blond hair, brown eyes, big cheeks, probably 9 months. I call him Baby John because he looks like my brother when he was a baby. He loves being held and curls up in a tight ball against my chest. He is a bit fussy. The masseuse comes every day to massage him, and he is a bit jerky in his movements. I also call him tongue baby because his tongue is always sticking out of his mouth, even when he smiles.
Euraslav-Brown hair (only on very top of his head), brown eyes, probably 6 months. The masseuse comes for him everyday too. He smiles whenever I say his name or look at him. He likes being held a lot.
Stanislav-Blond hair, brown eyes, big cheeks, probably 9 months. I call him Baby John because he looks like my brother when he was a baby. He loves being held and curls up in a tight ball against my chest. He is a bit fussy. The masseuse comes every day to massage him, and he is a bit jerky in his movements. I also call him tongue baby because his tongue is always sticking out of his mouth, even when he smiles.
Euraslav-Brown hair (only on very top of his head), brown eyes, probably 6 months. The masseuse comes for him everyday too. He smiles whenever I say his name or look at him. He likes being held a lot.
Maria-Black
hair, black eyes, 6 months. She also gets massaged daily. She is pretty
calm, doesn't cry very often and is usually just laying in her crib
sucking her thumb. At first, she didn't smile when I cooed to her. I'd
tickle her and she didn't really like it. Now, she smiles whenever she
sees me. She loves to hear her name and loves being touched. She
definitely shows signs of attachment disorder. I think it is good she is
attaching to me. She is a very cuddly baby.
Madelyn-Brown
hair, brown eyes, probably 7 or 8 months. She is pulling herself up and
starting to sit. She cries sometimes to be held. She likes to explore
and coos a lot to herself. She smiles pretty easily.
Adolph- Blond
hair, bright blue eyes, cleft chin, 7 or 8 months. He loves to explore.
He is pulling himself up and crawling a little. He can sit up on his
own. He can be pretty demanding at times but once he is a place where he
can explore, like his walker, he's happy. He smiles pretty easily and
likes being tickled. He is a very pretty baby. He moves around a lot and
is almost always on top of another baby. We'll hear some crying and
look over to see Adolph climbing on another baby.
Andrei-Brown
hair, brown eyes, 5 months. He has a tooth coming in on the bottom
which shows when he smiles. He has a pretty congested chest but laughs
really easily. His laugh is a smoker's laugh. He loves being tickled and
cuddled. I wasn't sure if he was a boy or girl until recently and
didn't know his name. To find out what his name was, because I was too
embarrassed to ask after being around him for so long, I looked at the
names on the cribs. I thought I could figure it out by default, knowing
all the other babies' names. I noticed a crib with Basile on it and I
thought that must be him (although it still didn't really tell me if he
was a boy or girl, however it sounded more like a boy's name to me).
Then, later, I realized that that wasn't his name. That crib was for the
3 month old who never sleeps in it. I looked
around for another crib and saw Andrei. I had been cooing to him that
he was a pretty girl for a couple of months by that point because he was
almost always dressed in pink. They don't really pay attention to
clothing colors at the orphanage, I think whether or not it fits is more
important.
Cristiana and Crisitan- Twins,
girl and boy, brown hair, brown eyes, 6 months. Cristian has been sick
the past couple weeks and has been in the infirmary. Cristiana
is very sweet and playful. She loves being in the walker and will push
herself over to you. She talks a lot. She likes being held and cuddled.
She is just learning to sit up on her own.
Artur- Brown
hair, brown eyes, sticking out ears, 6 months. I think he is the most
attached to me. He is always looking at me and smiles whenever I say his
name. He cries for me to hold him. He loves to hear me talk to him and
look into his eyes. He smiles very easily and laughs. He likes to touch
my hand as I feed him his bottle. I wasn't sure if he were a girl or
boy when I first saw him because he was wearing pink. However, when I
asked what his name was I figured it out.